Life seems to be always moving at a rapid pace. Sometimes, I wish life would slow down for a moment. However, as a student that is not the case. I am always going and doing something, such as, homework, work, theater productions, going to classes, makeup projects, and film projects. All these items keep me super busy and exhausted.
Some people have asked me, "How do you balance everything? How do you keep doing everything?" The honest truth is there are times where I cannot balance everything and feel overwhelmed. At times like these I have to remind myself that I cannot do everything all at once. I have to slow down and take one step at a time.
Most importantly, with each step I take, I create a moment of balance. Each moment takes some sort of connection with the world around me. That connection may be through body language, silence, talking, seeing, or even feeling. Most of the connections I make incorporate some form of communication. Over the past week, I have learned that communication is necessary in all things from doing homework to working on a production. For instance, my job took a turn from running smoothly like a well oiled machine to having a huge knot. There was a point where I felt I would never be able to get the knot out. Well I discovered the knot was created from not being able to communicate clearly.
I am the Head Hair and Makeup Supervisor in the Costume Shop on campus. I have a lot of responsibilities with this job.The biggest responsibility I have is to train the actors on proper makeup application techniques, how to style their hair and how to follow the makeup design from the designer on the specific show they are performing in. In order to fulfill this responsibility well, I have to organize makeup students to help oversee the actors and make sure they are applying the makeup correctly according to the design of the show.
The show that Brigham Young University is currently working on is The Count of Monte Cristo. This show is an American Premiere show. This show has never been done in the United States before. This show is very big and intense. Since this is the premiere BYU is trying to get everything to work right and look good. My job is to make sure the hair and makeup look good on stage. I do this by communicating to my crew what needs to be done.
The show has not gone up yet, but we are two weeks from the first performance. The weeks before performances I get a crew together and train them on what needs to be done. I have been emailing my crew and informing them when when we have training, what we will be doing, and what is expected of them. I failed to include the designer on the emailing list. No one was communicating with her. Since she was not receiving any of my emails she went into panic mode. She started emailing everyone and told them when she wanted to do training. She was going to train them. My crew received half a dozen emails telling them conflicting things. They did not know who to follow. They were confused. Luckily, I was able to clear up the communication error, by learning that I had not included her in the emails I sent.
I cleared up the communication error. Today, I gave a nice training, while at the same time, everything went smoothly and the designer was pleased.
-The life of a makeup student
I think everyone can say they relate to your struggle of balancing all of the responsibilities they have right now. School, work, social life, volunteering, internships, they all compete for our limited attention. It reminded me of this meme I saw a while ago: http://www.pinterest.com/pin/61080138671013587/
ReplyDeleteIt's so accurate, it's funny. I completely agree with what you said about taking time every day to create a moment of balance. That's something my friend, who's in the junior core for Accounting, and I have talked about a lot last semester. Everyday, we'd find a "perfect moment." No matter how busy we were, we would take time to enjoy the moment we were in. More often than not, it involved friends, a sunset, or food. The effects of that moment in the rest of my life surprised me. I found myself calmer in general, and more capable of handling stressful situations that were sprung on me. It's interesting how large of an effect little details can have in our lives, isn't it?
So true. Small communication errors can have huge impacts. Nice work correcting the error quickly and turning the situation for the better. I too understand that everything can't get done, there are trade-offs to everything. Finding the balance is what's the hardest, and it appears you are finding your balance.
ReplyDeleteAs a former ballerina well accustomed to the precise technique of stage makeup and overall presentation, I certainly understand how critical your job is!
ReplyDeleteLike Ally mentioned, I definitely can relate to the seemingly ever-present struggle of balancing all the aspects of life. Balance is one of the most critical elements in each of our lives and yet it seems to always be one of the most difficult to achieve. Again drawing on Ally's comment, the method of finding even just one moment of perfect balance each day has been really beneficial for me. I have found that if I take the time to truly enjoy at least one thing--be it a conversation I have with a classmate or close friend, or if it happens to be a sunny day in the midst of winter, or even if I happen to have packed a really great lunch that day-- my busy scheduled is oriented in a slightly more balanced state.
I am glad to hear that you were able to remedy the communication error relatively quickly and I wish you and all the performers the best for the premiere.